Where’d all the grains of time disappear? I’m feeling sheer panic as my launch goal is 24 hours away. Here’s how wacked out I was.
“The Tau of Steves: What You Don’t Know Could Fill a Book”
Hi and welcome to Friday’s Episode 130 in the first season of “My 1-Year Natural Experiment” on this 6th day of December in winter of 2019
“5” Steve Aoki, 41: “Holding back takes either self-control or fear. Throwing everything in takes either courage or ignorance. Knowing what to give, when and how much takes either prudence or wisdom.” Sagittarius
Evidence
At the last minute today I roughed out a bulleted draft I’ll circulate to my friends and acquaintances, first, and then on to roughly 1800 others in my LinkedIn 1 degree network:
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- Started working a quasi memoir; too self-serving.
- Remembered a film I saw years ago — “The Tao of Steve” — and a creative light bulb went off. The movie was about a philosophy for picking up women based on Dex’s synthesis he cobbled together based on Steve Austin, Steve McGarrett and Steve McQueen.
- Totally fictional.
- But it got me thinking.
- What if there is something to how our name influences us subtly — more than our horoscope, I’m guessing — and a reason why our mothers chose it for us.
- Each has a special meaning according to all those baby books and websites expectant fathers and mothers devour, right?
- Have you ever given any more than just a passing thought about your name? The sound of it as a baby — probably on of the first bonding experiences in each of our lives, right?
- I’m taking a 360 degree approach, collecting stories from Steves, but also from their children, spouses, sisters and brothers, wives and partners and parents.
- Kind of a he-said-they-said approach.
- What’s in a name?
- My working title is, “The Tau of Steves: What You Don’t Know Could Fill a Book.”
- So, I’m looking for advice and feedback.
- If you were me, how would you identify and screen 100 Steves and 100 Friends-of-Steves (FOSs) willing to contribute stories?
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Clearly my fears of embarrassment and how others might react overtook me until I just blurted out on paper what summarized my intentions. Was it a shining moment, like working a room? Dunno. Think not.
“3” Steve Zahn, 51: “It’s easier to work a room when you think you’ll only have to do it once. You can shine in the moment without a thought about the past or future of a relationship.” Scorpio
Random ones that make me want change my sign.
Again, Aoki’s Holiday Tau feels in tune with my state of high anxiety and I’m holding on for wisdom to show up.
“5” Steve Aoki, 41: “Holding back takes either self-control or fear. Throwing everything in takes either courage or ignorance. Knowing what to give, when and how much takes either prudence or wisdom.” Sagittarius
Great point G&G, if there’s something I notice in my roughed out draft it seems too complicated. Maybe I’ll try shorter versions out with my closer friends first to get their unvarnished feedback.
“5” Steve Greene, 34; Steve Guttenberg, 61: “You can fit into a lot of different descriptions yet you’re far too complex to fill out just one. Getting to know you takes time.” Virgo
Maybe the fictional Dex had it right when he chose McQueen as an inspiration. Clearly my bulleted rough draft required more digging and fine tuning. But not so much that it delays engaging with my audience.
“4” Steve McQueen (1930 – 1980): “Many leaders concede an effective message — true or not — to be one that drives people to a desired behavior. If you want the truth, you’ll have to dig for it.” Aries
At this moment in time, I’m not sure I’m feeling fresh. But I’m ready to concede something that’s been trapped inside of me for quite awhile. Is it out of step? Maybe.
“4” Steve Smith, 30: “You may think you’re having a fresh feeling when actually the feeling is just now emerging from a trap it’s been in for years. The intensity of emotion may seem out of step.” Gemini
Let’s summarize my emotional life by combining the Holiday Tau from two comedians, a company founder and an NBA coach:
“4” Steve Carell, 57; Steve Martin, 74; Steve Wozniak, 69: “Take time to give yourself props for the little things you do to keep this show going.” Leo
“4” Steve Kerr, 54: “Think life is good, and it will show you how good it is. Think life is hard; it will show you that. You’re not afraid to see more than one side of it.” Libra
Image Credit: Wikimedia Commons
Inspired by: Holiday Mathis – Creators Syndicate
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